There only one way to move into to your home using the San Diego first time home buyer program. If it seems to you that I have a personal view of this San Diego first time homebuyer down payment assistance process. Absolutely. You’re absolutely correct. And I don’t apologize for that. I’m going to be frank and honest. Don’t get mad. The fact remains that I’m in a beautiful house that I paid .45 on the dollar for and if you’re reading this you’re probably not. I’m very happy that you want to better your life and I am very happy to help you do that. I’m not going to be politically correct or say the right things or tell you what you want to hear.
What you will have to deal with to move into your home.
I’m going to tell you exactly how a lot of the process is unfair, unnecessary, is a waste of precious time but needs to be done; on time and correctly. People will require you to sign things and meet them to sign things on a schedule that is disrespectful and borderline abusive. I felt the same feelings as when I was bullied in the 3rd grade and trained myself to whup some tail in revenge, but in this case there is not a thing in the world you can do. If you want to move into your home, you have to play by their rules. That will mean your perseverance needs to be in overdrive. You will have to maintain beast mode during this entire long drawn out process or let one of the inevitable obstacles chase your dream away. If you want to move into your home then you will weather every last minute appointment. You will persevere through being told no many times. You will move into your home when you have lost many hours sleep on redfin searching for houses. You will move into your home when you fork over more money then you have ever given anyone in your life. Then, and only then will you move into your home. All because you cultivated perseverance.